Many considerations complicate our sexual decisions. Cummunication, individuality and knowledge about sex are crucial for formulation your own decisions about your future. In other words, you must first clarify your own decisions. Then, as you learn more about sex, you can learn to communicate to others, your decisions and what is right for you. Making those decisions require help from different areas and we hope that the information gathered on this site was able to help you. In this section, we've included links to Frequently Asked Questions, advisors, glossary, and also a page where you can give us your feedback and suggestions.
What is sex?
Sex refers to gender (male or female). It includes inherited tendencies, plus the knowledge, experiences, attitudes and behavior he or she has acquired that relates to the person being a man or a woman. Sex also refers to activities involving our sexual organs, as when we talk of someone 'having sex'. There are primary and secondary organs involve in 'sex'. The primary are those directly involved in reproduction: the man's penis and testes or the woman's vagina, uterus and ovaries. Secondary sex organs are those not directly involved in reproduction, but rather assists in determining a person as a male or female, and often give rise to particularly pleasurable or erotic feelings when appropriately stimulated (the breast and clitoris in woman).
Having sex' can refer to anything from sexual intercourse (where the man's penis enters the woman's vagina) to other sexual activities not involving vaginal penetration. Sex, in the sense of pleasure we get from our sex organs, is also as much psychological as it is physical. The brain is the most powerful sex organ. Erotic feelings, experiences or desires, sexual fantasies and thoughts, sexual urges, or feelings of sexual attraction to another person, are all expressions of the activity of the brain. In sex, the brain can also be the most ruthless enemy.
Sex, for most of us, is really much more than just a physical or psychological experience. It can be the most intimate act we share with another perosn. Good sex is less about sexual technique; it is more about expressing our true selves and being open and responsive to the needs of your partner