...durnig your first time. Yes! Once a female starts ovulating, pregnacy can result from any sort of contact of the penis to the vagina. From there, they swim up through her cervix, through her uterus, into the fallopian tubes. If the woman is ovulating or has just ovulated (meaning that she releases an egg from her ovary), then a sperm meets the egg (ova) and you get fertilization.
"Dry sex," can be a very safe and pleasurable way of enjoying sexual expression without risking pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases. However, if your partner ejaculates semen near your vaginal opening, you could become pregnant. If your partner ejaculates, make sure he does it away from your vagina and ask him to clean up any semen so that it will not potentially come in contact with your vagina.
…from giving oral sex to a guy? Totally impossible. In order for a girl or woman to become pregnant, sperm have to get into her vagina. There is absolutely no way for this to happen through oral sex. Even if the female swallows semen, which some do, the sperm cannot get to her ovaries through her stomach -- can't happen. HOWEVER, if the guy ejaculates anywhere NEAR her vagina, then there is the possibility that she can get pregnant. Sexually transmitted diseases are a different story. Some are spread through oral sex.
...during your period? Yes. You DEFINITELY CAN get pregnant if you have sex during your period. The only 100 PERCENT effective way to avoid pregnancy is to not have vaginal sexual intercourse.
...if there is semen or cum on a guy's hand and he touches a girl's vagina? If a guy has semen on his hand and then touches his female partner's vagina, it is possible for her to get pregnant, although not very likely. Sperm cannot live long outside of the body. So partly it depends on how long there is between when he ejaculates on his hand and when he touches her vagina. It is best if he washes his hands or at least wipes them off, just to make sure that all the semen is removed before he touches her.
What is the average size of a penis?
Every male, practically from the moment that they become aware of their penis, become full of doubt as to whether it's big enough. The average penis is about 4 inches long in its normal non-erect state. A 2 inch non-erect penis can still grow to be quite normal. So instead of obsessing about the inches you have think of the inches you have to fill. The average adult vagina rages from about 3.5 inches to 5 inches in length. This means that basically every adult male has a penis that can reach every square inch of almost any vagina.
What is masturbation and how do you do it?
Masturbation is when people touch their own bodies for sexual pleasure. People masturbate in lots of different ways. Touching your own body for sexual pleasure is different for everyone, depending on what makes your body feel good. Males usually stroke or rub the penis or press their penis against a mattress. Females usually use their fingers to touch themselves on or near the clitoris, the sensitive bump above the opening of the vagina. Check the sections on masturbation in the male and female area of this site
Can masturbation hurt you in any way?
There isn't ANY scientific evidence to show that masturbation can cause you any physical harm. It definitely DOES NOT affect height or growth or cause you to grow hair on your hands or any of those kinds of things. So don't worry that you are going to hurt yourself by masturbating. Masturbation is a natural and normal sexual practice. Most people do it. Surveys have shown that 80% of males and 59% of females have masturbated by age 18. In your early teen years, your body changes. Hormones make you feel tension in your penis or vagina. This tension builds and you can feel really uncomfortable until you find a way to release it. Masturbation is one way to do that. It is also a good way to get used to your body and your sexual feelings without the confusion that sometimes comes with doing sexual things with someone else.
Orgasm is the way your body responds to being sexually excited. When orgasms happen, your body gets tense and blood flows to your genital region. Muscles in the genital area contract to release that tension. And it feels good. Some people say orgasms feel like a slow build-up with an intense -- or peak -- moment of excitement. Others say their entire body tingles. Everybody feels different. Often people experience their first orgasm through masturbation. Find out more about the details of male and female orgasms.
I can't tell you if you're gay. A lot of teenagers--when they are learning about sex--tend to practice on each other. Guys will sometimes masturbate together or even give each other a handjob just to get a feel of what it's like to have someone else do it for them. Girls, at sleepovers, will sometimes practice kissing on each other or compare breast growth. Most people grow out of the phase, if you continue to feel strong sexual attraction to someone of the same sex, you might be gay, but only you can determine that.
What is oral sex (a blow job, eating someone out) and how do you do it?
Oral sex is when a person uses his or her mouth to sexually stimulate the genitals of another person. Oral sex given to a man usually means sucking or licking the penis. It's called fellatio. You've probably heard it called other things, like "blow job." Look at the section on Fellatio (oral sex performed on men) and Cunninlingus (oral sex performed on women)
Can you get STDs from oral sex?
Having unprotected oral sex, especially with different partners, can definitely put you at risk for getting or giving an STD. Herpes, chlamydia, gonorrhea, genital warts, HIV, and Hepatitis B can all be transmitted through unprotected oral sex. People who have STDs often have no idea they are infected because they look and feel perfectly healthy. The infection can be on the skin of someone's genitals (penis, scrotum, or vulva) or in their semen or vaginal fluids. Also, people who have an infection in the mouth can pass that along to their sexual partners' genitals.
Does the first time hurt for all females? Will there be blood?
Sex shouldn't hurt, whether it is your first time or your hundredth time. And, most women do not bleed a lot the first time they have sexual intercourse. If there is bleeding, it's usually because your hymen broke.
The hymen is a thin membrane that covers the opening of a girl's or woman's vagina. If you use a mirror, you might be able to see it. It covers the vaginal opening partway. Hymens do not all look the same. Most girls break their hymens during childhood, often without knowing it, through activities like bike- or horseback riding or using tampons.
If your hymen is still intact, you can stretch it open yourself for several weeks before you have intercourse. It should be pushed to the sides of the vagina. Put one or two clean fingers into your vaginal opening and move them gently from side to side. Do this every day until is stretches. There may be normal spotting of blood when you do this.
If sex hurts, it's usually because a woman hasn't been sexually aroused through foreplay. That means her vagina isn't lubricated before a man puts his penis into it.
Where can I get birth control?
You don't have to go to a doctor to get condoms. They are available in most drug/convenience stores as well as vending machines and public bathrooms. If you want to get the Pill, a diaphragm, Norplant, or Depo Provera, you will have to go to a doctor. You can either go to your OB/Gyn, family doctor or a clinic, like Planned Parenthood.
What is a "hand job", and how do I do it?
A "hand job" is slang for manual stimulation of the male genitals. When people stimulate each others' genitals some people call it "mutual masturbation".
There is no "right" way to touch another person's genitals, whether male or female, because different things are pleasurable for different people. The specifics need to be explored by each pair of people with a little creativity and a lot of honest communication. That means you have to try different things and ask your partner what he or she likes.
Do men need more sex than women?
Men do not need more sex than women. Within both sexes there is a wide range of sexual expression, which also changes at different times in a person's life. Many men have less sexual appetite than many women. Women also have the capacity to have more orgasms than men.
Anal intercourse is when a man's penis enters his partner's anus. Some people find it very pleasurable. Some don't. Some people are curious about it while others have no interest in trying it. You will have to decide for yourself whether or not it is something you want to do with a sexual partner. Also, whether it is right or wrong is up to you to decide for yourself.
Look at the sections in male and female area to learn more about anal sex and how to do it.
A fetish is a form of sexual behavior in which there is unusual interest in an object (i.e. a high-heeled shoes), or a part of the body (i.e. the foot), in order to obtain sexual satisfaction.
There is no "correct" way to french kiss. It typically involves kissing with an open mouth. Sometimes people who are french kissing stick their tongues in each other’s mouths. Sometimes they suck or lick each other’s lips and tongue. These types of kisses are usually more passionate than a closed-mouth kiss.
"Dry sex" is a term that has different meanings to different people. Some people think it means taking off all your clothes and going through the motions of sexual intercourse, thrusting and grinding and rubbing against each other's bodies without ever inserting the penis into the vagina. Other people think it means going through the motions of sexual intercourse, without ever taking your clothes off. Dry sex with clothes on can't result in a pregnancy. If the male ejaculates in his clothes, then there is no way for the sperm to get through his clothes and into the female's vagina. If there are no clothes on, however, and semen comes in contact with the opening of the vagina, then YES PREGNANCY IS POSSIBLE. It can also be more difficult to control your desires and hormones once your clothes are off, so it can be a lot safer for both people to keep clothes on and enjoy the pleasure without the risk
What is cybersex and how do I do it?
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Cybersex is the act of performing verbal sex online. Similar to phone sex, the purpose of it is to arouse your partner with written words or through online chat. Newer technologies allow for users to plug in a mic and talk to someone online. It's extremely safe sex. With the right words, it's easy to turn your partner on take part in mutual verbal masturbation.
Recently books have been written about how to have cybersex. What either sex prefer to visualize so that you can pick the right words to stimulate your partner's mind. The brain is the most sexual organ in humans and little words can trigger strong sexual responses. Cybersex is mostly about picking the right words. Medical terms for body parts play no roll in cyber or phone sex. Learn the so called "dirty words". The naughty words that you were never taught. Use words that bring sex to the mind. Imagine making love or having sex, tell your cyber partner what you would say to a real partner. This is your chance to fulfil some fantasies.